No matter how valid your feelings are, and respectful you convey them; some individuals will label them “negative” and the conversation “shit”… simply because immaturity can’t handle uncomfortable!
You didn’t say anything disrespectful. They just can’t handle confrontation. You didn’t belittle them or lose your integrity. They just can’t handle you being anything but pleasant. You didn’t do anything wrong. They just can’t handle you speaking up for yourself.
You are not at fault for speaking your truth. Their response to you speaking your truth exemplifies their character.
Remember these truths❤️
Then tell them to fuck off! (HA! No don’t do that!!)
With Love & Light:
Nova Namastè
Café Cultivéd 
I don’t stand for invalidation. It’s just people emotionally abusing you so they don’t have to accept that you have different feelings than them and those feelings are allowed.
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Amen! I couldn’t have said it better myself! Welcome to my blog, by the way:)
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Thanks, glad to be here 🙂
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